I’ve just been told that I’m a nice person. Now this is usually a good thing no? Well, not when it is followed by a very polite and politically correct sentence which in effect goes “You’re too nice to be my boyfriend”. ;)
Now, I have to admit…I don’t get this very often. It’s new to me. Novel. I was actually quite pleased to get this “I don’t like you but we can be friends” treatment.
Okay, I won’t say I’m pleased but I think it’s for the best. I think I understand agape now. I’ve been interested in this girl for ages (no points for guessing who).
She is interested in another person. I think that’s great, if the person is a nice guy.
I have a feeling I went about this entire thing the wrong way though. I tried too hard to be nice instead of being the indifferent player. I think all girls like bad boys to some extent.
This entire “Let’s just be friends” thing is different from what I’m used to receiving, but now I think of it, it’s for the greater good.
I usually make people cry. *cue song I’m a heart breaker*
She didn’t make me cry though. I totally understand. I still feel the loss though coz she’ll make a great life partner.
On the other hand, knowing my history, friends will DEFINITELY outlast my average relationship. ;)
Now, when is karma coming to bite me in the ass?
maybe you seem a tad desperate to her le? and some people can smell desperation from miles away….
vun fung: Yeah that was my mistake!!!!!!!!111
I wanted her so much (she’s very very wife material) that I made myself too available and thus desperate, which I never do, coz it makes people take you for granted. T_T
She knows it and I know it. Alas, I went too hard for this one. :)
be urself..do not change for others…they cant accept who o wat u r then they dont hv fate to be with u… ;)
ah nel: Yup, I’m being myself…it’s not that, I think I was just too persistant and that kinda turned her off. That’s my mistake in this one. She would have made a great partner in live.
I’ve never even gone out with her, as in just the two of us. :)
Awwww… So sad.. :(
It’s way too complicated.. Be an asshole and she might think YOU’RE not marriage material. Haha.. Be too good and she just thinks you’re a good friend. But now that she’s just a good friend you can totally show your bad ass side. And that might make her think totally rethink it.
And then you can do the: “Well, now I only think of YOU as a friend…” :p
Still got faith in ya. Go go HB!
Jenny: Oh well, on the flipside, it does wonders of toning down the player image people have of me. ;)
Haha! That’s a good one but she reads the blog so I don’t think that would work. I don’t want to be manipulative anyway, we’ll just be friends and I’ll be myself. :)
She’s a really nice person, think she’s one of them elusive life partner people.
Thanks Jenny! See ya at lunch later! :)
Hey HB,
Someone told me once that, there is always someone out there for each one of us. So not to worry. Have faith and if it meant to happen it will.
:)
Maybe you are just too loving her till you receive the “good man” card.
Maybe put more time in earning money is a better way instead of 24 hours loving her. At least she know u r not 200% on her?
Look at the brightside~!
save it for the others
i’m sure there’s always a better one :)
just be yourself and play hard!
personality like yours it’s quite rare
*huGs*
I see the problem…. She is a wife material. But you’re not a husband material. How?
Crystal: Heh! Thanks! I’m getting a bit long in the tooth too, won’t mind getting married with the right person and having kids. :)
TianChad: Haha! Yes, I bug her a lot. T_T
Nah, it’s all good. I still like her.
We’re “buddies” according to her so it’s good. :)
sirei/rei: Heh! Thanks for the vote of confidence. It’s actually all good. I like her coz she has a bubbly personality and a really kind heart. Someone you can live with for the rest of your life ya know? ;)
Life goes on!
Cheers! Appreciate the kind comments.
ahlost: No worries, I’m alright! :)
It may be better this way. Haha! I am not well known for having long relationships and I was hoping this would break it. It’s my fault too, I’ve been after her for ages but never did anything substantial coz of work and then I think she got apprehensive of me bugging her that much so we’ve never even had a date! :)
Jerine: Haha! Yeah, that is indeed the ultimate question. I can be husband material if I find the right person I guess. :)
Tis’ sad fate!
April is a sad month!
There they were
stuck
dog and bitch
halving the compass
Then when with his yip
they parted
oh how frolicsome
she grew before him
playful
dancing and
how disconsolate
he retreated
hang-dog
she following
through the shrubbery
-William Carlos Williams
Thank god May is around the corner! Be optimistic!
awwww… hope ur heart’s not too broken! there are many fish in the sea, right? good luck :D
Cheer up, time will heal all.Soon you will be head over hills again.Anyway how is your mum doing?Reagards.
not to worry BRO. . .u r still young “not yet 30″
it’s a big sky man…anyway, hope your mums doing alrite. cheers.
Nice weather here, how is it there? Oh I’ve just run over your cat..sorry.
Don’t have to hide feelings but hope you’ll be fine soon!
But well be honest to yourself just be who you wanna be.
You’ve one life. Live for yourself! :)
Hi, how’s your mum doing? Love to her. Is there an email add that I can email her?
Michelle Chin: I’m an April baby! Aries FTW! =D
Thanks for your concern Michelle! :)
tamstar: …yup, and trees in the forest. ;)
Cheers!
cin: Hey no worries I’m fine. :)
My mom is recovering well, thanks for asking! :)
foodcrazee: Haha! Not yet, in another year though. ;)
ewen: Yup, my mom is doing well! Heard she went grocery shopping this very day from my dad. :)
Jeff: Heh! No you didn’t, my cat is fine. :)
Boy: Cheers bro! My sentiments exactly. :)
Lenita Tiong: Hello Pastor Lenita! :)
My mom is recovering very well, thanks to the grace of God. You can text my dad on his cell phone, he’s still in NZ and will be for a while. :)
Will do that. Pls give her my love. Tell her I’m remembering her in my prayers.
Lenita Tiong: Okay, will do. Thanks Pastor! :)
oh well, you can’t please everyone in life. so be yourself!
eiling: Thanks Eiling! =D
Yup, I totally agree! :)
HB I think you can be a good husband material, unless you cannot perform on the bed every nite… or can you? ;)
Husband: HAHA! I might not be able to perform, I dunno you have to ask my ex girlfriends for an unbiased answer. ;)
I think I can be a good husband material too, I love kids and I want to have them…but alas, have to find the right person to have the rugrats with. :)
Awwww… Yeah I tell you love kids :) And I’m pretty sure you’re good husband material!
Your kids will be so freaking cute. Maybe they can be your good luck charms in Genting too. :p
Jenny: Thank you Jenny! I appreciate the vote of confidence. =D
It was good having lunch with you that day!
Yeah, I would love kids…now the only problem – finding the right person. :)
Hahaha your kids will be the luckiest, because they have a really adventurous dad. =P
Jester: You mean OUR kids right? =D
I’m not giving up. !hi
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