I’ve been actively looking for a serious relationship since the last one didn’t work out. I’m sure I’m ready, I gave my all in the previous one and I guess the age thing is gnawing on me. I’m turning 31 in one day.
However, people have been telling me not to rush into a relationship…just chill and let it come when it comes.
I think they’re right. I hit on this girl just now at Hoofed and totally messed it up. Heh. I understand why though – I can’t even understand myself, so how can they (one of the girls in the group of two caught my eye) decipher my speech?
Tell me brother, what is the greatest jihad?
The most excellent jihad is that for the conquest of self. (Bukhari)
There are certain things that I would need to change and that would be the greatest jihad (struggle) of my life but I’ll be a better person when I’m done.
…and in the meantime, I’ll listen to you all and just chill.
The right person will come when she comes. :)