I like to think of myself as a bit of a playa with the number of notches on my belt for my various conquests. It has come to the point that I can’t even remember how many people of the fairer sex I’ve done the horizontal boogie with. 
However, one very special girl totally eluded me. This is Jestina and I’m not going after her for shits and giggles, I meant for it to be a meaningful relationship, which would hopefully culminate in holy matrimony. It took me over a year of effort, which ultimately proved to be futile.
I remember taking half day leave in my previous company just because she mentioned she was craving for a green tea latte. I went all the way down from SS6 to Berjaya Times Square to get her one from Starbucks. I didn’t have GPS back then so I took the LRT so I wouldn’t get lost and end up handing her cold latte. >.<
I think the problem with me is that I have approached the entire enterprise the wrong way from the start. I am used to playa moves and for this one I went the romantic route, which didn’t work very well. I have a very high batting average a.k.a. success rate when I’m in playa mode but I didn’t want to play her. Thus, I might have come across as too desperate.
BTW, in case you didn’t know, girls can smell desperation from a mile (or two) away. (!!!)
Anyway, still being friends, I decided to give it the good ol’ college try for one last time. We went out for lunch and dinner and hung out together. The last date was the most memorable one coz we were just sitting on the floor in MPH side by side, reading this huge dual volume compilation of creative advertisements and laughing and sharing together.
That was a very nice memory that I’ll keep forever.
Jestina is a very nice girl. She tries to make time for me even though I kinda knew deep inside that she wasn’t interested in me romantically. I just had a heart to heart with her after our date last weekend and she told me that she can’t see me as anything except a friend.
It took a lot of time and part of me was glad that she told me the truth at last.
I was out drinking last night and one of my friends asked me a question that was so obvious it would be the size of the Great Pyramids of Giza if I was not blinded by love:
Has she ever initiated conversation with you?
The answer is no! I have always been the one to call, text and MSN her. I knew it, and I willfully ignored it. Denial is not just a river in Egypt. >.<
Playa FAIL!
Thus, it’s time to move on and get my playa’ mojo back. Can’t be moping around when you’re in the prime of your life.
Incidentally, there’s a sexy party going on at Movida in Sunway Giza called Playa’. It’s on the 20th October and starts from 10 pm – 12 am. I reckon this would be the best time to socialize with the opposite sex over cocktails. There will be 4 different signature Encore cocktails at the event.
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I have 20 drink vouchers to give out so if you want them, just drop a comment and say “I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa’” and the first 10 will get a pair each.
Make sure all of you who commented turn up to cheer me up.
Dun be a FKK queen like Jestina. :p
“i’m a playa for life and imma going to playa!”
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Yuenny: YAY! See ya there. π
2 drinks vouchers for you.
a year of effort? wow, so unusual for you
didn’t follow the ladder theory that time, eh? π
the friends zone sucks
diz: Yeah man, not my usual modus operandi. π
But I really liked Jestina, she’s a very nice person. Lucky is the man who gets her. π
HAHAHAA ya the ladder theory works very well, but that’s not the main playa thing I do. π
Hey, I can’t agree on that, better be friends than nothing. π
I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa! Have patience Huai Bin!
michellezyenn: Okay, two vouchers for you Michelle! =D
No la, it’s not about patience. Jestina just doesn’t have the chemistry for me, you can’t force chemistry. π
I really like her though. I guess I still do. π
this made me so sad T________T
aud: No la don’t be sad! =D
I still heart Jestina very much. Can’t change chemistry. π
I like the personal touch of this ad! well written! π
“I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa'”
Cheer up Huai Bin!
chefmel: Thanks Mel! It’s easy to write when you write from the heart…and it ties up very well with Playa’ (the event) too! π
eiling: Got it! Two vouchers under your name Eiling. π
I’m okay, don’t worry. π
Thanks for your concern! π
I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa – Great post dude!
Couldn’t help rhyming playa with plier.
Strange world isn’t it? Remember the Dark Triad, remember!
Nic Gan: Thanks bro! π
Okay, got two vouchers with your name on it. See ya at Movida on Wednesday! π
wow. I thought you two are already together… Not many lady can stop a playa from being a playa.
have fun!
HB, do you realise that you’re jeopardizing your chances of securing a decent girl if you keep going on about your Playa qualities. Nobody wants to settle down with a Playa.
Naomi: Nope, I tried, but it didn’t work out. π
Yeah, Jestina will definately stop me from being a playa and lead me down the straight and narrow. π
Thanks Naomi!
karena: I know. T_T
I think this is part of the reason why Jestina isn’t interested too.
There’s this quote: Nice guys finish last, but playas never finish. π
Yeah, I am changing, in fact I have changed a lot in the past few months. π
Victor: Hey bro, sorry missed your comment there. Yup, the dark triad of personalities. π
awwwww *hugs*
What is a ‘PLAYA’? Or do you mean Player or Buaya?
You are wooing Jestina? Woo with your heart and be very persistent. Jia You!
kampungboycitygal: No worries, thus is life and Jestina is a really nice girl. It’s just that she doesn’t have any chemistry with me.
You coming to Playa’? There’s still vouchers! π
Magnolia: Hmm…there are similarities but a playa is not a buaya. A playa is more of a gentleman. π
Yeah, persistant ah? Okay, I try again! π
Am i still eligible?Lol, i always have the feelings u are into Jstn wen i read ur blog. But u noe,its life, u need 2 keys to make sound. No worries bro, better things will come. AND “I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa”
Huai Bin, been reading your blog for years and this is my first time commenting. Come on!! She’s so ‘lien’ okay??
Nick: Yeah man, there are still 6 pairs of drink coupons to giveaway. π
It’s only for those who say “I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa'” so I can keep count of who is going and who is commenting. π
Okay, counting you in, get two drink vouchers with your name on it bro.
5 more pairs left! π
Thanks mate, yeah I’ve never made it a secret that I’m really into Jestina. π
gladys: Hello Gladys! Good to hear from you. π
Actually, Jestina is a very nice person once you get to know her. π
Cheers for commenting! You coming for the event?
awh damn HB, poor thing lol. well things dont always go in our directions some times…i like the flow and the change in the mood of the post btw. starts off kinda down then progresses to something rather cheerio!
I don’t play and I don’t want to be played
BY: Yup, thus is life! π
Thanks! π
It’s a great party, I went to every single one of them, last one was a couple of days ago in Coco Banana. You want to come? There are still vouchers! π
Michelle Chin: Heh! That’s a good thing. No one wants to be played. π
I haven’t been a player for a while too…settle down time I guess. I just wanna live a happy and stable life with someone. π
5 more pairs of drink vouchers to be given out! =D
Thanks huai bin! Are you going?
you said: Yeah, I am changing, in fact I have changed a lot in the past few months. π
hmmmm…..
eiling: Yup, of course! I’ll be there. π
See ya then. π
Any of your friends want to go? I still have drink vouchers. π
imantulen: Baby steps my friend, baby steps. π
Still 5 drink vouchers if you want them! π
I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa!
bwahahahahaha. I like to play the game too. Had been dabbling in a fair bit of it back in the days π
Jess: Hello Jess! =D
Okay, two drinks vouchers under your name for Playa! π
Yeah, I used to (my sense of time might be a bit unorthodox) to be one too. Was fun. π
See ya there! π
4 pairs of drink vouchers left!
No la, am not interested in the vouchers unless you fly me there to claim them. You are a generous gentleman, yes? ;D
Anyway, have a fantastic time and don’t drunk drive, ya π
gambatteh hb, she couldnt accept you its because she was in relationship with nicholas chay and they jst broke off, good luck hb!!
Yvonne: Haha! Fly you to Malaysia? I’m kinda broke right now and still have to get a house so I can’t. I won’t mind flying there though. π
tc: Hmm…no la it’s a chemistry thing. She just doesn’t have any with me. π
“I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa'”
I need more playa tickets! Thanks
she has got that sweetest smile to die for…that killer ‘wink. Im sucks in this playa game. Will usually be the first to fall into the trap myself. shite. I need to learn how to let go with no string attach…hmmmmmmmmmm
“I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa”
Thanks playa!
eiling: No worries! I just need the full name of the people who are coming! π
Charles: Yeah, she does. π
I’m a bit fail in the playa game nowadays too, need to get my mojo back. :S
Come, let us find our mojo together! π
Samuel Lee: Okay, two drink vouchers for you buddy! π
I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa!!! yay!
I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa! No but seriously. I am.
Dude, this is not a personal attack on your life but no girl looking for a committed relationship and in her right mind would EVER go steady with you after reading your blog.
Angeline: w00t! Can you email me your full name? sixthseal@gmail.com – you’ve got the drinks vouchers. π
Ben: Okay bro, email me your full name and I’ll get you the drink vouchers. π sixthseal@gmail.com
Rambling Mind: Yeah, I know. π
That’s why I’m looking OUTSIDE the blogosphere. :S
bro,sorry but currently im sick mad,dont think i could make it tomorrow FML..u might as well giv the tix to others as not to waste it
Nick: Got it bro, I’ll pass the vouchers to other people then. Thanks for informing me and get well soon! π
any more left hb?
I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa!
π
I’m a player for life and I’m going to Playa!
aaawww..you’re my bff for a reason. & not because you’re a playa! you aren’t. LOADS of girls would wanna date you ;o)
**hugs**
buuut..for what it’s worth, “i’m a playa for life and i’m going to playaaaa..”
diz: Yup, two drink vouchers for you! I’ll need your full name though, will email you in a bit. π
Sheryn: Hello Sheryn! π
Confirmed you for two drink vouchers! =D
laineylashes: Heh! Thanks Lainey bff for the vote of confidence! π
Althought I’m not seeing a lot of action on the dating front lately. :p
YAY! See you there! Two drink vouchers! w00t! =D
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