I’m interested in psychology and I got a comment just now asking me why girls like bad boys. I’ve done quite a bit of reading about this in the past so I’m quoting from a variety of sources. Well, the first and foremost reason is due the period before their period, so to speak.
Females are attracted to a bad boy persona during their most fertile period, right before their menstrual cycle.
However a more intriguing reason is the personality type dubbed The Dark Triad – Narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. Some people are cursed/gifted by The Powers Above with this. Most men score highly on this, some more than others.
Yes, the bad boys do get the girls. Trust me, it’s not as fun as is sounds, especially if you want to be a nice guy. Bad boys do NOT get the girls they want to be with except for brief sexual encounters.
It can be a very heavy cross to bear when you want to settle down. You really have to make an effort to counter this. At least that’s what I heard from a friend of a friend. The higher you score on the Dark Triad personality traits, the more sexual partners you have.
It’s just evolution.
Don’t hate the player, hate the game. 
But in the end the game plays the player for it is he who ends up alone.
LOL! Ultimate bad boy pic! Gangsta mate
ShaolinTiger: Yeah, that is why is is a huge cross to bear…
Pete: Heh! No la, camwhore only. I was in the bathtub in Fraser’s.
cant agree more with u…bad boys always had their sexret admire towards them till on bed… 😉
haha what a priceless photo
should have replaced that ciggie with a cigar la!
I wonder is it the same with girls. You know, how bad girls gets more guys. Hmmm…
The player might get played out himself.
*winks*
ah nel: Yeah, but it’s not always a good thing. 🙂
quaintly: Haha! Thanks Su Ann! 🙂
Yeah, taken by a friend of mine while I was soaking in the tub at Fraser’s. 🙂
eiling: Hmm…I didn’t bring any cigars. It would look better though eh? Haha! 🙂
gypsy-on-the-year: Yeah, bad girls also get the guys, some for the same reason (the appeal of bad girls) some just coz of sex.
However, it’s not a good thing when you’re older though and just want to settle down. 🙂
Michelle Chin: Haha! I’ve been played before – the girl I loved most have played me, thinking back, she does have the dark traid of personality but if I had to go through it again, I would. 🙂
dude, don’t need a picture of you masterbating in the bathroom. aya, people around me thinks I am gay liaw. ha ha ha…..
it’s true, chicks dig the roughest and toughest dude. They like the rough sex too but they won’t admit it and they don’t like it when you slap them about too, chicks are strange creatures. It’s very confusing.
Haha awesome post. Now i know why chicks swoon around me 😛
I think u score really high in the dark triad.
HB, funny. bcos u look not bad enough in this picture. Still got the cutieee. aikssss….
Dude I am totally the bad boy and I pull mad chicks. Not to toot my own horn, but it’s just the way it works out. Tattoos and motorcycles get chicks wet, what can I say? My buddies hate me cause I always get the girls. I tell them to be more bad ass and they will get them too. Confidence is a bigger turn on to women than looks. Remember that
rocket: HAHAHA! I did not my friend was took the photo from across me. Waterproof cameras FTW!
It’s not confusing, it’s just about menstrual periods, hormones, and evolutionary behavior. 🙂
chrisblitz: Haha! No comment about the dark triad personality scores. 🙂
Good for you! Enjoy! 🙂
I’m a bit unhappy though coz I want to settle down. 🙁
Lion: Haha! Thanks! =D
The dark triad of personalities is not about being a bad boy per se, but a set of personality traits that manifests in certain behaviors that does not conform to society standards.
Appreciate the kind compliments about the cute bit. 🙂
Chris: Projected confidence and a don’t give a fuck attitude is part of the dark triad of personalities along with many others. Impulsiveness etc.
Basically people like that are not the Average Joe, not the safe, normal people. 😉
Sigh. I’m too nice. T_T
crab now everytime i see you, this image will come to mind, NOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooo
u know… sometimes one does not need to be a bad boy/girl… all one needs is a sweet mouth… and waalaaah… one gets the girl/guy!
but then again, i’ve met with too many sweetmouth “gentlemen” to categorise them as good guys… they are a different kind of bad boy… looks decent, family kind, your-mother-will-love-him-for-a-son-in-law kind, even nerdy… but in the end, they’re also players…
maybe it’s just unfortunate me…
Simon Seow: That’s a good thing bro. 🙂
KY: Haha! Unfortunate. 🙂
Best not to think about it. 😉
shimmers999: Sorry to hear about your bad experiences! Yeah, I’ve seen those people and they are not bad boys/girls but they do fit the Dark Triad personality traits. 🙂
but a bad boy can always prove that there is more to him than what is visible from the outside when actually being with the girl they really like after getting together with her through his bad boy side.. (ok.. that seems really long n complicated after typing it all out.. but hope u get wat i mean.. hehe..)
the main point is that theres still hope.. so don fret!! 🙂
Nice tattoo of your rebirthing Phoenix I notice there. Hey, I’m in KL next week, love to catch up with you sometime.
Christy: Awww….thank you so much Christy! =D
Yes, I guess that is true, totally agree and get what you mean.
Thank you so much for the vote of confidence and support Christy! 🙂
Yes, there is still hope!
Jeff: Yeah had that for years. 🙂
That would be awesome mate! Yup, next week is good, would you be staying for the weekend?
Cheers!
Why is playing wrong?
Sweet mouth getting girl is just temporarily ok… What we want is true heart of the man… *looking far away in the distant with tears*
Vicky: Seriously, don’t take it too seriously. De Jevu. You can’t mould a man into something he is not.
thanks hb! seems u wrote this post exclusively for me heh? haha!
rocket: It’s not wrong. 🙂
Perfectly fine by me bro, you know that.
Vicky: Sorry to hear about your bad experience! 🙁
A bad boy need not be overtly bad boy. I’ve known people who are nerdy, have good careers, dress impecably…someone that even my mum wants as a son….willing to lie, backstab and cheat his way up the ladder..and not to mention is a player.
Also another thing, girls like to change their man….I had one ex, after we broke up said that she thought she could change me into what I am not…is stop smoking/drinking/occasional gambling.
Girls, please don’t get together with someone hoping to change them. In the long run…they never change. Just enjoy the ride.
You are not a bad boy. You are a fud.
Ah Des: I agree with you bro. 🙂
On the not changing part…we are who we are, until we become parents and have to change for the sake of our children. 🙂
gregor butler: Never said I was bro. 😉
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